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i am seeing people on my flist go YAY for NJ because of the ruling by its supreme court on gay marriage. i don't feel a whole lot like yaying. i was hoping for a lot more, and it even seemed likely that we'd get that.

if i understand the ruling correctly, this is not super great news. bottom line: the NJ supremes have upheld the ruling by a lower court (pdf), against the gay couples bringing the suit. and kicked the whole thing back to the legislature with an admonishment to give equal rights to gays as to heterosexuals (well sorta) -- instead of declaring discrimination in marriage law unconstitutional. the latter is what most gay rights advocates want. the latter is what i want.

i consider that a "maybe" on gay marriage in NJ and really, deep down, a "no" overall. "oh, you gays should have all the same rights, but we're not gonna give them to you because maybe you shouldn't be allowed to call what you do "marriage"; we leave the decision over that to the 'democratic process', kthxbye".

yes, the NJ legislature is now required to either allow same-sex partners to marry same as hets, or to enact separate civil union legislation (gee, i wonder which it'll be, first class or second class). but this will only apply to residents of NJ. if the court had declared the current law unconstitutional, people from anywhere in the US could have come to NJ to marry there, because NJ, unlike massachusetts, does not have any local limitations on marriage licenses. so NJ will probably become another vermont. that's good for people who live there, or are willing to move there, but it becomes meaningless if they ever want to live somewhere else together, because there is no such thing as reciprocality between states (or countries) when it comes to civil union. civil union does therefore not bestow all the same rights as marriage, and it's two-faced of the supremes to pretend it does.

oh, and look at this bit: If the State proceeds with a parallel scheme, it cannot make entry into a same-sex civil union any more difficult than it is for heterosexual couples to enter the state of marriage.28 It may, however, regulate that scheme similarly to marriage and, for instance, restrict civil unions based on age and consanguinity and prohibit polygamous relationships. any bets as to whether this last bit will not happen? uh hn. thought not. us polyamorous folk are the next bugbear now, right next to pedophiles.

on the positive side, gays in NJ will at least get civil unions, which is a bit of a step up from the already existing domestic partnership laws. the court said that denying committed same-sex couples the financial and social benefits and privileges given to their married heterosexual counterparts bears no substantial relationship to a legitimate government purpose.

but this is a blow to gay marriage rights advocates across the US.

on 2006-10-25 22:05 (UTC)
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Posted by [personal profile] geekchick
that's good for people who live there, or are willing to move there, but it becomes meaningless if they ever want to live somewhere else together, because there is no such thing as reciprocality between states (or countries) when it comes to civil union. civil union does therefore not bestow all the same rights as marriage, and it's two-faced of the supremes to pretend it does.

Thanks to DOMA, even a marriage wouldn't necessarily be recognized anywhere else.

No State, territory, or possession of the United States, or Indian tribe, shall be required to give effect to any public act, record, or judicial proceeding of any other State, territory, possession, or tribe respecting a relationship between persons of the same sex that is treated as a marriage under the laws of such other State, territory, possession, or tribe, or a right or claim arising from such relationship.



on 2006-10-26 02:09 (UTC)
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Posted by [personal profile] geekchick
Hopefully it didn't come across this way, but my comment wasn't meant in any way to imply that I think civil unions as separate from marriages are preferable to just letting everybody get married (or even better, having who you marry not be any of the state's concern whatsoever).

on 2006-10-26 02:44 (UTC)
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Posted by [identity profile] pir-anha.livejournal.com
oh no, it didn't come across that way. i figured you were just glad that gays were getting something in comparison to states that are falling all over themselves to enact anti-gay-marriage amendments. while i mainly feel that they've been sold down the river again (because i see civil unions as second class marriage, DOMA *spit* notwithstanding; that came later anyway), and i didn't see anyone on my flist point out that this wasn't actually a win for the people who brought the suit.

looks like fundamentally our preferences are very similar.

on 2006-10-26 16:15 (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] kyra.livejournal.com
They really should just rename DOMA to "Fuck Your Full Faith And Credit."

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