no time to write much right now (i have torx, and i must screw!), but i don't mind y'all geeking about BDSM here. it all helps to desensitize me. :)

and yeah, i don't have a problem with the playing at all, but the 24/7 stuff that so happens to look just like pre-enlightenment marriage, that makes me wonder. especially since i get the impression that it's overwhelmingly copy-cat gender-stereotyped as well -- i'd probably be less suspicious if a majority of the "masters" were female.