Oh, now I remember something else the list criticized - the gender balance requirement.

The list now has a "classifieds" sublist, which somewhat seems to take care of the complaints about kinda-off-topic costs-money workshop posts. The complaining was initially directed at frequent posts about tantra workshops, especially those that made a point of mentioning "couples".

I agree that cuddle parties appear not to be unreasonably priced, especially compared to other similar workshops/events.

I queried the facilitator about whether people my size ever come to them. She basically said "not really" and offered me free admission. I appreciated the honesty and decided not to go.