My idea of hell is having two people in the car who are talking to each other rather than to me.
I'm good with bandwidth. If anything, too low can get difficult, since I am a multi-tasker, and need something to keep at least 1 or 2 processes in my brain occupied with something outside of myself. (I'm cool with being in my brain, but after a while it can get a bit old, and it can trap me in the patterns of double- and triple-thinking unproductively if I'm feeling down.)
The reason people are tricky is more about the necessity of having the public face on. (Which is why partners and very close friends don't cost energy - they aren't public, and don't require any special variety of presenting oneself.)
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I'm good with bandwidth. If anything, too low can get difficult, since I am a multi-tasker, and need something to keep at least 1 or 2 processes in my brain occupied with something outside of myself. (I'm cool with being in my brain, but after a while it can get a bit old, and it can trap me in the patterns of double- and triple-thinking unproductively if I'm feeling down.)
The reason people are tricky is more about the necessity of having the public face on. (Which is why partners and very close friends don't cost energy - they aren't public, and don't require any special variety of presenting oneself.)